Skip to main content

To my Dad

I wrote this shortly after my dad died last summer, just never felt moved to post it, but now, for some reason, I do.

I’ve never been a poet
But the feelings I have must be recorded somehow
As a father, he had no equal
As a friend, no one to compare
I guess I’ll never know what
Sacrifices were made
Or what hopes and dreams may have been
Left unfulfilled
But we, his children and wife
meant more than anything to him
I treasure every moment of my childhood and my youth
Spent fishing, and playing games
And listening to silly songs
And I feel certain that the dream of having
A loving, happy family meant more to him
Than fame or wealth
And I wouldn’t trade those memories of anything
And the best part is I know he wouldn’t have, either

Comments

  1. This is so beautiful. Thank you for writing & posting it.
    I had thought about checking your blog on Dad's birthday, but I just couldn't seem to get there. I really wish that I had seen it then, but I'm glad that I saw it now.
    Thank you for putting your thoughts into words.

    ReplyDelete

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

walk on a chilly morning

My DH called me at 8am to ask if I wanted to go for a walk when he got home from work. Sure, I said, trying to be cheery, even though he had awakened me from a strange dream. My plan was to get back on track with diet and exercise today, so that was great timing. I put on some jeans that were less than clean, pulled my hair back in a pony tail, slipped on a t-shirt and sweatshirt and waited for his arrival. Shortly after he got home, I was checking out Yoville (almost have enough coin to buy my Cape Cod) when DH made a disgusted noise...he was trying to put my shoes on. You see, my feet are big and so we get our shoes mixed up easily. Anyway, we got our walking shoes on and away we went. It was cold...32 degrees! It was good to get out and walk...I have had so many things going on the last couple weeks that I have really ignored good eating habits and exercise has only been hit or miss. We were walking under the railroad underpass (highline as they call it here) and spotted a tin...

Getting ready for P90X

One of my goals is that when I have lost 28 pounds, I will start doing the P90X workouts. I bought the set of DVD's two years ago and was just too heavy and out of shape to do them. I tried, but it was too much for me to sustain. Now I am 6 pounds away from meeting my goal so I started looking at the program last night...specifically the eating plan. I did all the figuring and it came out that I should eat 2400 calories a day when doing the workout. I can't imagine that is correct, I am sure that with the job that I have...spending much of my time in a car or sitting in meetings, that will be too much. Right now I eat between 1300 and 1500 calories a day, burn around 1100 calories in my workouts and I lose 1-2 pounds a week. I wonder if that calculation is based on maintaining weight and building endurance and muscle....who knows? I will have to research it further. The other thing is that I don't know if I will do the P90X every day, or if I will do other workouts, li...

Weigh in day! One month with SP

Today marks my one month anniversary for being back on track with Sparkpeople and my 49 day on this blog challenge. I lost three pounds! I feel great, eat good food and exercise regularly, but I don't over do it! I look forward to another good week. I am not falling into that trap of 'treating myself' on weigh in days, I have to eat as healthy today as I did every other day. I don't want to eat anything that will impede my weight loss and good health!